by Brian Tuck
The pressure is on, that first kiss is a test. GayCompatible.com provides you list of first kisses that just don't pass:
The Open Mouthed Swallow. It’s a big risk that some enjoy taking, but it’s the radius of lippage that people fear most. If the chemistry is there it could work, but most people lead up to that with some introductory closeness. Some tips if you are going for the gold: dive in from a shorter proximity, no more than arms length unless you want to know what their teeth taste like. Close the gap a little and tongue comes second. But hey, if you two are feelin' it, by all means Rhett Butler, don't hold back.
You’ve been chatting for over a week now, even exchanged emails. It’s now time for the true test: the first date. For those of you who are online serial daters, we know already that no amount of online communication is entirely first-date fool proof. The chemistry may change or evolve for better or for worse, but we have to take that leap to ever find out. Save the romantic full course meal or day trip of hiking in the country for once you are better acquainted. Keeping the first date simple and enjoyable is key.
An outdoor festival or sports match
Going to an outdoor music festival, parade or community event is fantastic because it let’s you talk. You can get to know each other at the same time, unlike a movie where you would have to be silent the entire time. Extra points if you both somehow get to participate in the event somehow. Keeping the date on an active note is a great way to enjoy some excitement together, let your guard down and share a few laughs.
GayCompatible.com pushes you past your comfort zone, unchartered territory
So you’re date has an imagination, hmmm? You may be wondering, is it too soon to hear about it; too early to broach the subject of sexual adventure? Perhaps it’s not your cup of tea, or maybe it's something that has made you curious.
Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have fantasies of all varying degrees; saucy ideas that circle around in our head. Some we haven’t pondered long enough to bring to fruition or had the chance to explore yet. There is always something that will perk your attention more than others, if not now, eventually.
But what qualifies as a good fantasy? Fetishes carry stereotypes of leather and pain, but it could be anything really. Role-playing, multiple partners, outdoor adventure, fun with refrigerated goods... non-perishable items? Ok, I’m pushing it. Or am I?
Tips To Turn That First Date Into A Second Date
While some of this may seem quite logical, the challenges of dating etiquette are continuously put to the test. Nothing is more successful than just being yourself, although, there are some golden rules to live by when there is room to grow.
Be on time. You may think you are creating suspense, but Madonna’s tour crew won’t be providing smoke effects for your grand entrance, so get a watch.
Be a listener. Sometimes when we are nervous and afraid of uncomfortable silences we blab our way through a first encounter. What is most important to avoid is redundant banter about our life. The secret to being a good listener is to:
a) ask questions about what you just heard. It shows interest and keeps the conversation moving forward. It also displays interest in the other person.
b) never taking opportunity to turn it into an opportunity to talk about oneself.
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